Advice For When Your Life Turns To Shit

I sat on the floor with my laptop and a question: What would you say if you had to tough love yourself into the truth? The following poured out.

You have brought this situation to yourself to receive gifts of awareness. No matter what it looks like. Stop beating yourself up about the mess you have made because its not a mess. Reorganizing the molecules of your life just looks a lot different than you thought it would. You are very fast and create the path of least resistance to get all the awareness and change you are asking for as quickly as possible. You are willing to blow up a lot of things to have what you are asking for, and none of it is a problem unless you decide that it is. Again, it just doesn’t look like you thought it would.

Ask, how can I give myself love today? Judging yourself constantly isn’t working, it only makes you more depressed. There are gifts at every corner. Embrace them. It’s a stark contrast to “Fuck, I destroyed my life, and now I have to fix it!” What you’re really saying is: I’m wrong, this is uncomfortable, and I would like to put my life back in its nice neat package and wrap it back in plastic so I have the picture perfect life that everyone is striving for but can never achieve because its not real. Embrace the chaos. There’s more fun and freedom than you can imagine on this path. It’s way more fun than you’ve been having.

You’re not wrong for what you’ve been choosing. It’s just time to put down the glasses you’ve been wearing that make you see everything you do as wrong, and every choice you make as bad. Try on the glasses of your reality to see the beauty of what you are creating, and the magic of what is possible. That is who you really are. Beyond wrong and right choices, beyond self-judgment, beyond the matrix of this reality, there is the truth of you. And if you are willing to pick up the torch of possibilities, be in allowance of everything, and love yourself no matter what, magic and possibilities await you.

This is not about spiritual bypassing, or pasting over your negative thoughts with positive thinking. This is something else entirely. You are brave, and willing to face every point of view keeping you stuck and go through anything the fastest way possible to get what you are asking for. I’m asking you to remember that part when…

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